Kjoy

Ok I know my tomorrow is like very long but I have my reasons ok!!!! I went for lasik… so there are some delays. Let me write down the events before my lasik before I even go into that. HEHE. 2+pm we reach hotel. I have special perks ok. I have 3 rooms for use on my wedding day. One is of cause for MK & me, one over night standard room, one day use room. The room is super niceeeeeeeeee not just because it’s super huge. The room has a living room, guest toilet, chocolates (I know many of my helpers are eyeing them), fresh flowers, disc player and HUGE MIRROR which is what we really need. HIAO MAH.

All of us are rushing because my ROM is at 6.00pm. Baoling who is my MUA came at 3pm to make up my sisters and my mother (its not free ok!). She gave a good price anyway so it was reasonably good!!!! I mean the make up not the $$. =P As you can see we reach hotel about 2+pm… there isn’t much time for us to laze around. Lynn, Joey and Bernadine are fighting for toilet so one of them used mine 1st.

Anyway my ROM is at 6.00pm, according to my plan which the hotel planned for me, Operation Manager (OM), supposed to “appear” at my room at 5.00pm BUT HE DIDN’T!!! WE ALL THOUGHT that he might just be late. We waited till 5.30pm OK! He still DIDN”T SHOW UP! We called the Assistance Banquet Manager and so we manage to get the OM to call us at our room. Lynn say the OM ask her to go the ballroom at the 2nd floor to discuss. So she went. By this time I was feeling so handicap because I have no one to relate on when she is gone.

Nevermind that, 5.30pm, my family is here at my room. What the hell.. so early. Anyway I have to rush down to basement to look for my ROM room and I found it. There was NO PEN on the table, NO COCKTAIL serve. I was very angry… like MK is going to get all the shite but I didn’t flare it on him ok!!!! I am so proud of myself. Anyway 5.45pm… Still no cocktails serve. My Justice Peace (JP – the one who honour signature on your marriage cert) is already here. What the hell right… this is not the frustrating thing yet! I WAS SO ANGRY AND MY SHOES ARE HURTING ME!!!!!! Then I saw my angel Lynn, so I rush to her asking her where is that BLOODY OM? She told me 2nd floor and I ask for his mobile, Lynn say that he didn’t give. I stomp my way to the lift and went to second floor, stomp out of the lift and I saw a guy putting up my wedding album and fitting the reception table.

I raise my voice, ARE YOU NICOLAS?
Nic: Yes.
Me: Why are you here? Aren’t you supposed to be basement serving my guest with cocktails?
Nic: okok (He instructed a staff to do so)
Me: Nic, I want the cocktails to be serve NOW and I mean NOW! Not soon or another 5 mins.

I think he freak out, anyone would if I flare up. Its scary, my friends say so. +_+ So he went down. I was sitting down because my F*cking feet is hurting. Everyone try to calm me down. Then another angel appear, Leon, the Assistance Banquet Manager, I think he knows that I am very angry but before he could step in and apologise to me, I flare at both of them, Nic and Leon. Poor Leon. Really doesn’t deserve that shite from me. So I start flaring very sarcastic remarks to Nic that he doesn’t give out his contact number and if he was at my room at 5.00pm, everything will run smoothly. Blablabla then Leon apologise to me, and it was very sincere.

Then I have to settle wine issue? OH MY GOD… what the f**k is all these??? Good thing that Bernard is experience to help me out and many others!!!!!! Like Ricky help me with how many wines that are opened. I was trying to breathe … I feel so damn breathless!!!! I have to sit down and stay calm, Lynn and Dennis (both my emcee) is trying very hard to relax me. Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

I try to calm down again BUT my photographer not here yet. What is this?!?! I ask Lynn where is he, where is he, CALL HIM. At least when he reach he really rush in for me, not like Nic still wandering around 2nd floor, I feel like slapping him.

So ROM only lasted for like 15mins and we wonder around for the photographer and videographer to finish up the shots. We then headed to the crystal ballroom, I know its like my name but trust me, I didn’t purposely choose that. I have some problems with reception and some suggest that I need more and so I appointed a few but it somehow didn’t work I heard when I was doing like my hair in the room.

Joey went up with me at 7.45pm. I tell you I really felt my feet are gone, they are so sore and painful. Joey help me wear the shoes to expand it, so it won’t hurt so much while my MUA is busy getting my hair and touch up done.

8.15pm. DONE! So I walked down and getting ready for my 1st march in. This stupid MK asks me if I am nervous because he is. WTH. I wasn’t nervous and he keep telling me he is… blablabla.. I feel like slapping him. HAHA.

OK we walk in, I don’t know who arrange for the guest to throw pedals on us. The pedals WENT INTO MY NEHNEH (breast)!!!!! Argh!!!!!! We only have time for the 1st dish. We sat down after all the posing (for photos) on my stage with the SUPER FAKE CAKE. I feel so fake then we go to out seats and had our 1st dish then we go up to the room again. YOU KNOW I WAS DAMN HUNGRY OKKKKKKKK….. Joey came and follow us up. Ya ya we go uo earlier because I have another hairstyle for my second march in. Feels like those fashion show walks.

Second march in went well (by the way all my hair on my head are real!!!!!!!!!!!!) and so the YUM SENG start… everyone gather at the stupid cramp stage and shout yum seng. My videographer is behide us and his hair caught fire because of the candle lights display deco!!!!! HAHA that make me laugh like no tomorrow. The whole shouting is done by MK’s brothers, Desmond, Seyhan, Ricky, Clifton, Recaro. Ok then everyone return to their seat then we just have a few bites then we have to walk around tables, to yum seng or to take pictures. Ricky and Seyhan did the table arrangement for me. It was tiring trust me. Some table prepare some shite for us to drink. YUCKS. Bernard, Dennis, Ricky help us out…. Baaaaaaaaaaa if not will die one ok.

Anyway the dinner ended at I don’t know what time. HAHAHA. MK is alittle high from drinking, me too but in-law carry on drinking until I don’t know what time too!!!! Then we have food send to our food and we ate like barbarians!!!!!!!!!!! Ricky, Desmond, Seyhan and Dennis accompany us until 3+am then MK knock out (that bastard)!! I am all alone with not a clear stage of mind counting the angbaosssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hehehehe!!!! Until 4+am… then I get to bed. BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA……….

Woke up feeling so dehydrated!!!!!!!!!!!! We manage to make it for the bank, returning the gowns and we go home and SLEEP AGAIN!!!!!!!!!! At night then we start packing abit for our honeybomb. Ok that I leave it till next entry. This entry is way too long.

15 July 2007, Sunday, is my wedding day. A day where many say it’s my big day but why? I have no f*rking idea. Anyway, eve of my wedding day I tried to sleep early like 9.30pm coz I have to wakie the next day at 5.30am. BAAAAAA…

And so I try to sleep… Lynn is suppose to come over to my place to stay overnight because of the ungodly waking up time and as she has got a wedding dinner to attend on that night, she can only make it at my home about 11ish pm. 9.30pm, I am already asleep. It’s amazing how I fall asleep so fast I think its due to the freaking hang over. Anyway Lynn phones my parents saying she can’t make it coz the dinner is dragging and it will end very late. My smart father came knocking my door… telling me that she is not coming and moving out the mattress. I am like wtf father, knocking on my door waking me up is BAD ENOUGH and you just take up like another few mins to move those unnecessary things which can be done the next day. GOOD LORD.. by then I was awake and it took me AWHILE to sleep.

I woke up at 5.45am. I am so triedddddd… but good thing that my parents let me shower first. Just when you think they are being nice. I was taking my own sweet time to bath, shite, washing up, wearing lens… and someone knock on the F*RKING door again. SPARE ME MAN… I am just using the toilet! MUM wanna SHITE. SO I have to give way to her. So much of letting me having the toilet first.

Nevermind about that, I am finally done around 6.30am and I requested specially to eat Maggie mee in the morning. As per usual, they try to avoid cooking, offering me stupid cakes instead BUT I INSISTED. So I am a happy girl with my Maggie mee. I know not everyone is a Maggie mee fan but I AM!

6.45am Lynn reach my place, looking at me with my ultra sleepy eyes and a bowl of Maggie mee. She then ate the cakes! MUAHAHAHA!!! Then slowly many people come, I can’t remember who come 1st. The next one after Lynn was my MUA BaoLing! I really like her make up! And so after my fag I am all ready to sit down and get my face coloured. Videographer (Wai) reach, Joey then Bernadine then photographer (Kit). While me getting my face coloured, the 3 ladies are happily preparing shite for those guys which I didn’t get to look at.

Face done, gown done, then take pictureeeeeeeee (I think that’s the whole point isn’t it? LOL). While the girls are having fun with those guys inbetween gates, I was asked to sit in a miserable room!!!!!!!!!! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee no fun!!!!!!!!!!!! I wanna sabo them toooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Finally after an hour of wait (their one hr of fun), the guys got the keys to come in. So now it is MK’s nightmare! Special request by ME to sabo him! DANCE infront of my bedroom and kneel! LOL I think dancing should be the best gift I ever gave him.

Anyway after that has been done, we headed out to Alexander Park to take some pictures. Ok I like this part most, Why? Simple because of what they ask us to do and trust me, I laugh my jaws out if it could. Ok I will update this part with some funny pics.I am trying my best to get the pics asap ok! Don’t rush me anymore! Arghhhh~~~Head to MK’s place after that, stupid MK threw me to the bed like it is his ONLY LIFE TIME revenge that he can do on me! *&$#(*$&(#^P#%

After all the tea session blablabla… change to this SUPER HOT CHINESE SHITE SUIT, then headed back to my house again. How stupid, run here run there… ALL THESE for a 5.30am wakie! YAYA whole day I wasn’t like smiling only for taking photos, that’s coz I am super HOTTTTTTTTTTTTT with that STUPID LOOKING CHINESE SHITE SUIT (good Lord, I wonder which brilliant design this shite) and feeling pek chek for things not going on time and many last min request or changes!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ok I know I shouldn’t be feeling that day but trust me, wait till you people try it, or else you won’t know it!!!!

Back at my place, tea session again then makan then go hotel. OK my fingers are tired. Tomorrow I try to update the night part KKKKKKKKKKK!!!!

13th July 2007

This is my hens night and it’s suppose to be a bbq! I checked the whole of Singapore and everywhere else chalet is full except for east coast chalet. It used to be my favourite but not anymore….

I am like a little girl, I like cycling, bbqing… this kinda teenager gathering shite. Maybe I didn’t have much of these events last time so I specially requested for chalet bbq on my hens night instead of those typical club/pub drinking and flirting with guys. And I can’t live with THE GUILT if you ask me to freaking go kiss/hug another guy…

So I called up to book the chalet and realise that they have this combo package (2 nights) and its only SGD100.00 extra for addition night. I mean why not? Seems like deal and I went for it… so the 1st night 12th July 2007, me and mk invited the guildies. We didn’t pay for the food since I already pay for the chalet. It’s SGD10.00 each only anyway.

I reach there about 3+pm. So rented a bicycle for fun and I went breathless after half an hour. Some weak crap yea! I know! I tired cycling to the carpark to help them to ferry some food over but someone “stole” my job! I ended up walking back +_+

Bbq start @ 6pm. Some of them mj-ing, nuaing, bbqing. Towards the night, there were COCKROACHESSSS! It scared the shite outa me and I decided to not stay there for the night. Des and Seyhan said that they will help me stay put and some others companied (mikage, TT, Sham, Hexor, PHM, Ploomp)Awwwwwwww so sweettttttttttttttt of them!!!!!!!!!

During that night, me and lynn keep thinking of what we can do… we ended up booking a hotel room in Pan Pac. Well quite blessed I could say! Most hotels in Singapore are full on standard rooms and we got Pan Pac at a reasonable rate.

The next day about 9+am, we reach the chalet again and we demanded a refund. So we did and get.

BAD EXPERIENCE!!! And SO UNHYGIENIC!!!! And this is @ EAST COAST CHALET!

Its on a Thursday (5th April 2007).

Monday morning shine, noon rain.
Tuesday morning shine, noon rain.
Wednesday morning shine, noon rain.
Thursday morning shine, noon shine.
Friday morning shine, noon rain.
Saturday morning shine, mid noon rain.
Sunday morning shine, noon rain.

I was worried that it will rain and I was prepared for it but deep in me I know I must have faith and believed that it won’t rain for this wonderful event.

This stupid MK keep saying lets pray that it won’t rain and keep assuming that it will. If it rain, it rain! Even at the studio he keep looking out the window and tell me sky is very dark, I just told him “aiya it won’t rain!” The whole week rain! I can tell that I am DAMN BLESSED from the above weather!

Everything went on well, I have the best make up artist and the best photographer from the bridal shop. I am so happy because both of them treat me very well.

My make up artist really had 10+ years of experience and her strong points are focusing on your eyes, which is what I want actually. She keep saying that I look very pretty, I think that’s how she treat her customers ba..

My photographer is the humor one. The way he ask me to pose for certain shots makes me feel comfort, at least I wasn’t feeling irritated by the sun or the ants or the wind.

Overall I am happy about the make up, hair, and photos. The thing is I always have this doubtful feeling about this bridal shop. Actually the people that work for the bridal shop aren’t that bad after all.

Long post right? BECAUSE LONG DAY MAH!!!!

Good friday I still manage to go sentosa! I feel young again!

They called me and told me that its ready to collect yesterday, and so I went and was caught in a traffic jam at Keppel Road for half an hour. That’s fine. Thinking that everything will be fine and one lesser thing to worry about, I was so wrong…

Yes I custom make my shoes! Cost me SG$170.00. The first look on my shoes, they look gorgeous!!!! Then I tried it on, I couldn’t fully test the comfort on my left foot because of the bloody blister! That’s fine, my left foot will do the job.

So, comfort level is fine but when I look at the mirror, something is not right about it. The design just looks weird, they, at first insist it’s the right design. I know it’s the right design and I choose it but the design is alittle “OFF”. After comparing my shoe and the actually design, they finally got my point.

Now they have to redo my shoes. I don’t know why that I have a feeling to give them more time to do my shoes. Still recall that I told my girlfriends, I should give them more time, if anything cocks up, and I still have a month for them. Lucky I still have a month to spare!

Bleahhh its so troublesome that I have to go back to International Plaza again. Parking is damn expensive man!

I have decided after a long thought that I should not buy a solitale diamond ring. Firstly, it’s too outstanding for my tiny slim fingers and hence I also don’t want people to gossip about me. I also foresee myself that I will not wear a big diamond ring everyday and it will just end up collecting dust. So my final decision is not to buy such an expensive ring that doesn’t suits me. Instead purchase a matching ring for both of us as per so call wedding band. In this way I can wear the ring everyday.

This month, I have completed all the purchasing of rings. From wedding band to “for fun ring”. Since I am not buying an expensive ring now, I have more budgets to get a ring for pampering. I chosen the 3 diamonds ring, the diamonds are not too focus on one and it’s spread out. So it makes it look more even when I am wearing it. But on Sunday, when I was at my parent’s place, my hand accidentally hit the table and it also hit my ring… so hard that the one side of the crown is broken. The right diamond fell and now its being sent for repair. =(

My wedding bands just arrive the day before yesterday but I didn’t have time to collect it still. This month had been busy with friends, work, housework, movies, sleep, new car, planning traveling, trying so hard to order my stupid seal and just whole load of shite to be done first.

The proposal ring also had been sent for resizing. Imagine running to so many places everyday, time consuming. Buy so much yet see nothing yet. Zzzzz…

On the 13th I have my basic driving test and then I have to go to CK birthday party on 15th.

I really wanna have some time on the bed and watch some tv after a nice dinner.

Time really past so fast. Only realize it when I break the news of getting married soon (not very soon also). My brother’s wife already starts congratulating me, which I find it ridiculous. Well we never know what will happen between now to the actual day, maybe one of us drop out or whatever it’s going to be. So I really don’t see a point in congratulating me now.

Preparation of getting around it can really drain your time and energy away. Getting hotel quotes here and there etc. When my guest list only hits about 100pax, seems like it’s a fairly difficult choice. Only when upon look out, which made me realize how expensive a wedding can be. Sometimes I don’t feel very encourage to hold the wedding, as for now, I am counting loses on my banquet. How sad but true (certain extend). Actually plans was just to have a dinner buffet for the ROM to take place but, the cost of the buffet is not much different from a wedding banquet!

Went to look at some rings yesterday, as my girlfriend was commenting that my wedding rings are way too expensive. I know it’s the designer vs the non designer, but it’s a lifetime ring, I might just follow as planed. My ring alone will cost about $4,000 (to some its reasonable, to others its totally a waste of money), whereas with this amount I can get better diamonds at this Lee Hwa. The designs at Lee Hwa are not very fantastic, it didn’t catch my eye like the one I spotted years ago. Right, I think I should make a trip to really see my dream rings to calculate my loses again. =(